You will. I guarantee it. I feel like I’m failing daily… but who’s fault is that? If that’s the attitude we tell ourselves in the mirror,  first thought in our heads in the morning,  sure, you WILL fail. Life’s hard, I know this first hand, but what side do we want to be on? The winning side, or the losing side? Sure, sometimes I feel like a loser, but I’m not. And neither are you.

Not one of us is perfect.  Not one of our lives is either. Stuff happens. Our situations are all different,  yet the same. Look at them as lessons or steps. Learning to deal with our situations and deal with ourselves is a constant. Recognize,  learn, implement,  and grow. Failure is not an option. What other option is there? Think about it.

Even with that said,  you still will fail. I will fail. But it’s not about how many times you fall, but how many times you get back up. Seems like the story of my life. Fall, get back up, one step forward, two steps back. Got that part down. But, a work in progress. Key words WORK and PROGRESS.

But, what do I know? I’m an older, overweight, hispanic man with OCD, mixed depression and anxiety disorder, body dismorphia, and victim of grooming and abuse? Looking  in the mirror,  is this who I am? When you look in the mirror,  is that who you are?