Category: About Me

About Me

  • It goes on and on and on and on.

    Someone asked me recently what I did for fun….what my hobbies were. Honestly, I cringe sometimes when I get asked that because I  really don’t know how to answer that. I’m into and have been into so much stuff, and also half-assed hobbies, I don’t know what to say. In my almost half a century…

  • Built like an OG.

    It’s been a while….I know. Ever since late last year, life has sucked, sort of. I did get married, but soon after, one thing after another happened and just haven’t been really motivated. You can say that’s backward thinking… you would think that be the time you want to plow through… but here I am.…

  • Sweat the small stuff.

    So which one is it? Sweat the small stuff, or focus on them? I guess perspective comes into play. With the chaos that the world is today, a lot of things pop up into our lives, and it’s easy to forget the small “wins” or “victories” we deal with on the daily. But what do…

  • I don’t care anymore.

    I find the older I get, the less things affect me….Sort of. Things are getting old, repetitive, and in this world, things don’t really matter anymore. Sounds negative, but it’s not. I think a lot see where I am coming from, and even agree with this. Life’s too short, sweating the small stuff is a…

  • You gots to chill…

    A little change of pace, I suppose. I’ve been thinking a lot about the negative stuff and the  stress that is life in general, but also thinking of the good. Taking time to have gratitude and appreciation, or count your blessings for a lack of a better term. We all forget that. We all have…

  • Gotta laugh when you’re the joke.

    “Self-love, my liege, is not so vile a sin, as self-neglecting.” — William Shakespeare Gloom and doom….that’s no way to live. Life lives not in the cold and darkness but in the rays of sun and light. Self-pity is useless. We need to learn to be selfish. To practice self-love.  The right way of course.…

  • This isn’t easy.

    That’s right…it isn’t easy. Not only do I need to deal with my personal, everyday life, the world around me seems to be falling apart as well. What to do? We can’t control what we can’t control, so why even try? Need to worry about SELF and all the “human” stuff that goes with it.…

  • Oh, these sour times…

    Apologies for the delay in posting family,  but as always, life gets in the way. Fires, dealing with anxiety and depression, busted water heaters, and now add the stress of job hunting….life’s good….no, really, life is good. Doesn’t seem like it, and hey, I’m human, and it triggers from time to time, but everyone goes…

  • I’m the self-inflicted mind detonator.

    Hate to say this, and kind of embarrassed to, but people say that im good at a lot of things.That I’m so smart, talented,  whatever. But I know one thing I am good at….self sabotage and being my own worst enemy. I talk myself out of a lot. Dreams, aspirations….I feel like were squandered. But…

  • Stumbling in the dark.

    I’ve said it before, but life is good. Life is good, but not great. But in thinking about that statement, why isn’t it great? Life is what YOU make of it, no? The outside world is so messed up though… the things, the people. There’s something definitely in the water. You can only control what…